Winston Churchill loved to tell the
story of the little boy who fell off a pier into a deep ocean water. An older
sailor, heedless of the great danger to himself, dove into the stormy water,
struggled with the boy, and finally, exhausted brought him to safety. Two days later the boy’s mother came with him
to the same pier, seeking the sailor who rescued her son. Finding him, she asked, “You dove into the
ocean to bring my boy out?”
“I did,” he replied.
The mother quickly demanded, “Then
where’s his hat?”
We reflect on real gratitude today.
Jelaluddin Rumi, the Sufi seer and poet tells us that we are
guests on the great, good Earth, and our every breath should be one of
gratitude to the Host. The medieval
Christian mystic Meister Eckhart suggests that if the only prayer we say in out
lifetime is ”thank you,” that would suffice.
Saying thank you to the Great provider is only one part of a
life of gratitude. Another side is revealed
by Protestant preacher Elton Trueblood:
“I find that the one thing which I want to put into practice in my own
life is the conscious and deliberate habit of finding somebody to thank.” Say
thank you to somebody who least expects it from you today.
Gratitude paid to all around us becomes a spiritual
exercise. Show gratitude to the music
that enchants, to the winter boots that stand up to the wear and tear of the
elements, to the movie that brings tears to your eyes.
“All of us have experienced times in our lives that were so
precious and special that if it were possible we would have had time stand
still so that we might live that moment forever. A good time is a taste of God,” affirms John
Aurelio, a Catholic priest.
Feast on the moments that stand out in your mind as precious
enough to replay again and again. Now
repeat the mantra: “A good time is a
taste of God.”
In the Word of God for this Twenty-Eighth Sunday in Ordinary
Time we do have some reflections on gratitude.
Naaman, in our first reading from the Book of Kings was a
powerful
But eventually the healed and new Naaman - as a result of
this healing – realizes that he is the recipient of something – that he is
gifted by goodness – that he is on the receiving end of blessing. That’s a
posture that is new to him. And it makes
all the difference. Because he never wants to forget that this God who heals
him is so good he desires to take some of the earth from this land of this good
God and transport it to his land so that he won’t forget who is good, who is
blessing him , who is present. Naaman wants continually to taste God. Naaman
who once thought that he was in control of all can now give thanks day after
day for the God who loves and heals him.
And of course in the Gospel we have the familiar story of the
ten who are healed of leprosy – and the one who recognizes that he has been blessed
The gospel writer, Luke, talks to us not only about the need to give thanks –
to realize that we are blessed – to, as the Hasidic teacher Rebbe Nachman
suggests – put everything into its proper place and perspective by our
gratitude for what we have been given – Luke also helps us to look at where our
attitude of gratefulness comes from. Why
did the other nine not return? There were just as cured. I’m sure they were
just as thrilled. I’m sure they were
glad to put that horrible disease behind them and continue on with their life but
perhaps Luke is once again making a point that too often those of us who are secure
– and the community that Jesus addressed often acted as if they had it made –
think we are entitled to blessing. We can act so often that because we are good
– we don’t do terrible things – because we go to Church, attempt to raise our
families well – even give some alms to the poor and do all sorts of other good
things – we deserve to be blessed, healed, whole. Its like God has nothing to
do with it – its our merit because of who we are.
But Jesus turns it around, as Jesus always does, and reminds us
in so many places that we are to change our posture and attitude and realize
that we are on the receiving end of God’s blessing and goodness toward us.
Perhaps, as has been suggested by experience, it is the
poorest of the poor –the sickest of the sick, the most in need that realize
even in the midst of their hardship that they are blessed anyway – that they
appreciate the smallest gift – that the sunrise means so much – that the
smallest bird outside the window is a gifted messenger of the creator – that
the smile of stranger is a beam of warmth. It is a posture – perhaps the most
vital one.
Again Jelaluddin Rumi tells us:
For sixty years I have been forgetful,
Every minute, but not for a second
Has this flowing toward me stopped or slowed.
I deserve nothing. Today I recognize
That I am the guest the mystics talk about.
I play this living music for my host.
Everything today is for the host.
Let us feast this day on how our God is blessing us. Let us
know that al our blessings are a taste of God – our host.
Let us give thanks.